In life, we are faced with challenges of making the right decisions. Our decisions are clouded by our thoughts of What if? The fear of things not coming the way we want.

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We let ourselves to be affected by fear in making life changing decisions. In short, the fear of losing or failing affects how we choose or make decisions. I have a question for you. Yes you reading this article. My question is: Do we ever lose?

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My answer to that question is Yes and No. What ever that happens to us or better rephrased as: how ever we see things is how it would be to us.

If we make a decision and it doesn't go as planned, we can choose to see it as a loss but at the same time we can choose to see it as a lesson towards achieving the goal we seek.

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The greatest risk a man can make in his life is by not making any risk. The real truth is LIFE IS RISK and the best way to live a good life is being smart on your decisions.

What do I mean by being smart in your decision?

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In short, I mean never let an opportunity pass you by without looking into it. Weigh your options, make calculated plans on how to utilize such opportunity, check the merits and consequences of taking the opportunity or letting it pass you by and lastly, learn from your mistakes.

Regarding those who give in fear and never take risks: they end up being the one taking the greatest risk of never progressing,taking the risk of remaining stagnant in life and if possible, a gradual depression or retrogression in life.

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In conclusion, never let an opportunity go by without properly analyzing your losses. Never give in to fear so one won't have a night filled with thoughts. Never see your failures as losses but as a pathway to success through the experience attained.

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